
Mother/Daughter Relationships
A mother/daughter relationship is one of the most important ties each
will have in her lifetime. Many women have difficult relationships
with their mothers and daughters, even when they want good relationships.
A mother may wish her daughters happiness, yet—from the point
of view of her daughter, she acts quite opposite. A mother may describe
her daughter’s choices as failures criticizing her clothes,
her music and friends.
Understanding the relationship is critical to young adult girls and
the transition to womanhood. Daughters struggle to obtain autonomy
as mothers try to protect and this is perceived as over-protectiveness
and controlling. Encouraging a healthy mother daughter relationship
is not an easy task. Here are some tips for mothers:
- Accept your children as unique human beings
- Avoid blaming your children if you have problems
- Let your children grow up
- Do not expect your children to change for your comfort
- Evaluate your desires and life goals apart from your children
If
you are having difficulty managing your mother/daughter relationship,
we can help you gain a deeper understanding and acceptance of each
other.
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