Can I Change My Partner?
Couples oftentimes look to change the “other”. “If only” the other would make these changes, or do as I say, our relationship would be great. We tend to focus on the other. We tend to focus on changing the other. We tend to focus on the other’s negative behavior. Couples like to report what their spouse/partner is doing and how they are contributing to their unhappiness. As we focus and ruminate about the “other”, we are no longer able to take ownership regarding our ow