Mental Health and Behavioral Health Blog

Valentine’s Day is a day filled with Hallmark cards, chocolate covered strawberries, red roses and special dining. It’s a day to express our love and affection to those close to us. Some of us have expectations  that this day will be blissful; we may even receive that diamond ring that represents engagement or marriage. Valentine’s Day can be a wonderful time if you are in a relationship, but difficult if you find yourself alone. It’s easy to let the media and advertising mak

The True Motivation Behind Controlling Behavior Control is rarely about power over others. More often, it is a response to what feels missing inside: certainty, safety, or emotional steadiness. When life becomes unpredictable or overwhelming, control offers the promise of order. It reduces anxiety  by creating structure, rules, or authority—especially in situations where vulnerability  feels intolerable. Control as a Psychological Coping Mechanism Psychologically, control fun

Understanding the Motivation Behind Giving Advice We usually like to give advice because we want to be helpful. It also makes us feel very good when we can do something for someone else. We may think we have more wisdom in a particular situation and know that we have experience and know better. Our intentions are good when we set out to help others, however, how is this perceived by them? Inserting ourselves in other people’s problems and giving advice can be construed as man

The Imbalance of Responsibility in Relationships Overfunctioning in relationships occurs when one person consistently takes on more responsibility—emotionally, mentally, and often practically—than is healthy or reciprocal. While overfunctioning is often mistaken for being supportive, helpful, or strong, it frequently reflects an underlying imbalance in which one partner manages not only their own needs but also the needs, emotions, and responsibilities of the other. Over tim

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Navigating the Emotional Dilemma of Parenting and Addiction There is no manual for parenting a child with addiction . No clear rulebook that tells you when to hold on tighter and when to step back. For many parents, love becomes a question rather than a certainty: Am I helping, or am I making it worse? Lessons from Rob Reiner and the Film Being Charlie Actor and filmmaker Rob Reiner has spoken publicly for years about his son’s struggle with addiction . Together, they even t

Moving Beyond the Pressure of Expectations The start of a new year carries heavy expectations. We are told to celebrate loudly, surround ourselves with people, and declare bold resolutions that promise a better version of ourselves. When those expectations are not met—when New Year’s Eve is spent alone or resolutions quietly fall away, many people experience shame rather than acceptance. Reframing Solitude and Stillness Spending New Year’s Eve alone is often misunderstood. S

The holiday season is often painted as a time of togetherness—glowing couples in matching sweaters, families gathered around dinner tables, and social feeds filled with partners exchanging gifts. But for many people, holidays can highlight something very different: being single.